"The fraternity Neanderthal or access to members prohibited in the future with me! "
First of all I would to any dispel any burgeoning suspicion at the outset, the following for even the biggest doubters and skeptics to make it clear: I am not a die-hard man-hater, nor a member of the Alice-Schwarzer-fan and I have not the "Emma" subscribed, I'm no super-emancipated woman, as one might imagine, I am not a hardcore feminist, I had definitely not a bad childhood, I am definitely not men injured or traumatized, no "beating" connection was with a man behind me and my grandma and my mom I have also Never Whispered words "Take good care, all men are pigs" - so I'm actually quite normal and are representative of about 50% of the world: I am a woman!
I've done successfully before 3 1 / 2 years of self with a spiritual and psychological practice and I have not received any thoughts regarding a selection by gender, so therefore male and female, have to do with my clients - tjaaaaaa until the Day "X "About a month free! This said day "X" to me personally bestowed the "It-think-I-but-not-really-effect" and since then sharpened my senses, I started, I consider my clients more accurately and me a self-study imposed with regard on Topic: What makes a major difference between men and women? In terms of physical and visual aspects that should be clear, I do not suffer eventually in progressive blindness - no, me interested in the answer to the question: What do men, which women do not have?
was very helpful for this important recognition of said tag "X", which I gladly would like to describe a little to make you understand why now in my practice is:
"Access for Members of the fraternity banned Neanderthal! "
In my practice is to feel every client. I offer my clients find a highly qualified, highly result-oriented and very efficient, that is targeted, individual counseling, a very appealing and sophisticated atmosphere and homely atmosphere, everyone should be lounging in my practice as my visitors coffee, as it he is most comfortable - pillow, blanket and a consolation, anger and frustration Teddy alternatively, if it should be really bad times, are also available. For me it is different from coffee to tea for every taste, cold and sparkling mineral water from room temperature to - also offers you with a slice of lemon - and of gummy bears on pastries to cereal bars I have just about everything on sale, the Kleenex box for very bad cases is also ready and I have in the past, even for a hungry clients, in the course of several hours, continuing counseling session, which can advance the pizza service. Even for those who do not stand out of sheer nervousness and stress for several hours without a cigarette, there is of course an ashtray! Without me incense at this point even want: A case with a loving super all-round service. Here I would also feel myself very well and it should be !
I am certainly not superstitious, but because of the very memorable date conscious day "X", Friday, Aug 13, 2010, am I in relation to this issue but has become something thoughtful. It should actually be people who are on a Friday the 13th enjoy a free day, do not rise into the car, not with power handle, a knife handle, rather send the dog for coarse material on the balcony when leaving the house with him and prefer to stay all day in bed, for fear that this is a very sinister and very dangerous day. For me so far was Friday the 13th an otherwise normal Day - tjaaaaa, to Friday, 13 August 2010.
On this day, exactly at 13:00, I took an appointment with a new client in my practice. Until such time as I greeted the Lord, give to my office, asked him to take to my bed room, served him a cup of coffee and to request an ashtray to put, for me the day was still perfectly OK - my new client Up to this point in the other also. After a short conversation the client said gleefully set fire to a Gauloise - well over the cigarette brand can have different opinions, but let us do so as the space available - inhaled with deep train, grabbed then bravely smacking into the bite, carried by light in a well insalivated chewed gum and stuck it as naturally centered in the ashtray. After he had finished smoking the cigarette, he squeezed in the middle of this suddenly out in the ashtray pasted chewing gum. I respond to such conduct technical curiosities lowest category may not necessarily coincide with gasping, but I tolerate such outliers just yet, though under protest and anger expressions, from a pubescent 14 - year-old, but less so from an almost 50 - in years graying Mr. Suit, tie and welted shoes. After
also emptied the coffee was said client asked me whether he's just my toilet could use. Now, should everyone 5 - year-old have already heard before, that it is better before using the bathroom closed the door behind you - not as my client. Twice to ratchet the zipper and sustainable splashing in the toilet bowl accompanied his residence in my bathroom, what am discreet caused the door to close my practice to me that to save a bit getting used to and less socially acceptable noise. Despite half-open door to my office to all do something to at least tolerable, I missed one thing: the subsequent noise of the faucet - aaaah yes, wash your hands so we know not well! At this point I had asked my visitors happy, for whatever reason, he does not lift the same leg on the door posts of my practice, to be temporary territory mark - then we would have his short trip on my dress and my involuntary participation in, saving straight away.
Only two minutes later, the time's hand-washing, we had obviously paid the same as expendable, was Mr. - we call him Mr. Greying times - once on my couch visitors. During the consultation I started again, because I had a bit dismayed to note assume that, after my visitor had during his visit seen in my bathroom assured that everything was at its originally designated place or where there are also usually belongs, this is but apparently trust itself is not as completely out of the way and therefore almost obsessive about every 10 minutes to handle handiwork to obviously be checked in detail, if indeed everything is still there and nothing had been important and indispensable after accidentally flushed down the toilet.
Okay, from the stage in front of a Michael Jackson and various other artists spätpubertierender perhaps you may well be more such usual and tolerate this - I do wonder, today, that has to do a handle to said body with a highly professional consultation in my practice or to what extent I have any at this point something important overlooked in my initial analysis or forgotten. Well, I am a woman and you really do not need to comprehend and understand everything!
felt after Mr Greying evident in my practice, almost like home, he lit with relish even a second cigarette, smoked it over, and - no, not again in the already in the ashtray-adhesive chewing gum that was, after all with first cannot occupied - throwing the still smoldering butt into the in the meantime, except for a small residual emptied coffee cup, which for now but let me hyperventilate a little bit, if this borderline more than behavior. When I asked whether it would be more than a cup of coffee, said Mr. Greying but seriously: "Yes, but like it, but I could please 'have ne new cup, which now floats a fag!" Remarkable that he had fact was realized really! I have pinched each other caustic comment, but the Lord really must have been clairvoyant, because I actually briefly occurred to him the second cup of coffee, decorated with the floating dump in the cup to serve!
Right "Comfortable" it was then tried to end the nearly three-hour meeting, after Mr. me Greying to convince them that he would be me during the conversation sexual obsessions described also like to play outside my office with me live together (my husband would be at this point I strongly suspect they could have been really excited !!!), so the fee for the consultation was set off in accordance with this service offered, höhö - I showed myself in the light of this almost unbeatable offer less than interested and threw Lord said, after I click on an immediate cash payment of my fee, I gave gratefully passed on the contemplated non-material compensation, and had his "friendly" farewell "fucking dyke!" octagonal out.
I want this event does not have to, in connection with the said date, Friday the 13th 13:00 and bring, but I will in memory of these more than memorable and eventful day, without exception, the future every Friday the 13th, considered as a day of my personal awakening and celebrate. After Mr. Greying
had to leave my practice 16:15 something involuntarily under desert protest, I thought the whole thing as an absolute individual named "Out of Control classic" and "probably had a really bad day!". I lost in terms of how I must now say, a real failing, which has since contributed to the total disillusionment of my hand a lot!
called counter at 17:00 am the same day, after I had to calm the nerves authorized only once even a cup of coffee, a new client in my practice. After the usual conversation with me first information, but in fact this gentleman asked me how far my appearance match the photo shown in my website, if that would really be about natural hair, how old this picture would be how old I was and how great I am. I asked a little confused to what extent my looks and my age and my height and my hair had anything to do with a possible interview and my professional qualifications and received the answer that you did indeed need urgent advice, you have come to realize for themselves, but the eye would, after all, always "eat with" and you have not decided on the basis of my professional qualifications, according to website for my practice, but rather because of my taste for his attractive appearance. Aaaaah yes, this is really a compelling argument! Before again to rough derailments in my practice, which Art will come, I have complimented the Lord regardless of the direction and recommended him to a competent colleague.
mention at the very edge, I would just very briefly that I by this gentleman who had a very memorable voice with a slight speech impediment, the next day received an opinion of his "anonymous" phone call in which he me's worst insulted and threatened. After I had finished the conversation by hanging up on my part, I called him again to just below the telephone number known to me and put her strongly advised to consult a qualified psychiatrist or psychoanalyst, since he apparently with no rejection manage and would obviously have a profound problem. 19:30
counter (still Friday the 13th!), The next call in my practice: Judging by the vote even felt a little heap of misery, however, energetically? For my taste, more like a ticking time bomb! I request the Lord, if I could understand it in view of the fact that he had already desöfteren times of little girls out of print? Häää, like you, no, I can sympathize with the best will and would absolutely not, but I told him strongly to self-report to the police or the prosecutor advised the same. Closing message of the Lord, before the receiver on the Fork cracked, "And I'm with you bitch I get a proper consultation" Neeee and thank you, with absolute certainty at me!
After the call I had promised myself, when further calls ringing of the phone intentionally to hear mine and more than a little leisure time on the couch watching TV or in the bathtub with a good book to stay armed.
The next morning I had when listening to my voice mail say that I had left at 23:30 (from Friday the 13th!) A very friendly fellow a more than friendly, collegial message (also male!): I was a witch worst scale and belong more to his taste still burned at the stake! Aaaah yes, I am mighty impressed, my friend!
my knowledge, the last witch trial of the Inquisition in 1954, held in England in which a woman, her character midwife, because of the time feared alleged evil eye, which was suspected them because had died in childbirth in her presence a child , although not at the stake, but was instead landed in prison for eight years - but we all know we should never say "never again" and maybe I have since something is not mitgekriegt! Precaution I will definitely consider in future England selection no longer my favorite vacation destinations and replacement highlight of my list!
Light babbling let me suggest that the said colleague had antrinken accordingly before his call courage (there is only understandable if we muster the immense courage, to have a notorious witch at night to call for 23:30!) - Otherwise I can interpret fact that the alcohol level was apparently already so high that he had forgotten before his call on my cell phone to suppress his number, which was announced to me before his friendly and collegial good night greeting.
The following Monday I called so quickly decided in his practice. At first I was his assistant on the phone, and their demand to what it would be, because, I summoned with the answer: "My call is private, we know well, your Lord had tried xyz me in the night from Friday to Saturday be reached by telephone, "The assistant connected me with Mr. xyz. Me: "Good morning, here is the stake that you wanted to talk to me like" dead silence and then it was really embarrassing: He did all this not mean it, he would do so very sorry that he did not know what it there it had gone, he had been angry mad, because several clients of the therapy with him had been canceled due to failure and were switched to me in practice.
I was really impressed on that occasion, and recommended him strongly to think, to reserve a place on the couch in my office. He said sheepishly, think deeply about this recommendation as there were in fact well fields relevant deficits. At this point: "My dear sir, I am still waiting for their relevant application, you had it really urgently needed - we will discuss during the interview and the harmful effects of alcohol in relation to the mental capacity of the brain!"
I to almost limitless Understanding and far-reaching limits of tolerance inclined, but also a huge helper syndrome, sensitivity and compassion, possess, after all the means in relation to my job in my opinion absolutely necessary, had said after that Friday the 13th August 2010 have reported no Hi-wake effect on me, quite the contrary, I have this Friday the 13th under "Shit Happens" and recorded only once on this day the excessively humid weather, which even beats some people known to be so powerfully on the brain's pushed.
After many further discussions, consultations, phone calls and visits from men in my practice I have, however, unfortunately make a summary of the finding Friday the 13th August 2010 was not one of these common and well known "Forget it and just beating an egg over it day", but only a brief insight on the apparently now common and even typical behavior of the remaining 50% of the world population. Faced
I was since then with:
- Men who are initially crawling as the supposedly poorest pigs in this world, almost on all fours in my practice, often tearful, the "Mea Culpa - shame on me" celebrates have, however, unlikely that they help with my back upstream water available and met some places could rise from the ground, the verbal head-on attack against me raised his arm;
- Men in a latent self-imposed victimhood in the form "I am the poorest pig of all, all the other hack around just me and the rest are at my misery to blame but me "- the very short time after I confronted them with the subject self-reflection and mirror of self-knowledge, verbal in my practice for potential mass murderers mutated;!
- gentlemen, such an underground bad behavior, together with the famous already described and with regularity, repeating "ECG" = Egg-control handle (Sorry, gentlemen, you have actually ever seen such a woman - I guess no more!), Performed in my practice as spätpubertierende adolescents;
- Men, by my standards of competence and competence tied up primarily with my appearance and my cup size;
- Men who confuse obvious thing - they first look for urgent help in my practice to release blocks, heal injuries, to himself and to find again to others, limiting behavior and resolve to change radically constricting thought patterns - they hardly feel However, during the meeting, a serious positive change, they all make the end of the consultation as a just completed brothel visit: You despise the end, what they at first so very popular and better understood, "I pay for the service, so I can really the animal can be in the man out ";!
- men who indulge in the false illusion that could because in addition to the charges for any advice in my practice up a bit to run on very private and intimate level, served often and happy with the argument "it is in the course of a tour of yes come so close;
- Men who are of the opinion that any advice in my practice at the same group cuddle and entertainment leg hold around the clock, like on weekends and late at night because you just have a little sagging and immeasurably sad;
- Men, by my general absolution for domestic violence attacks and extra-marital been activity demand because they are considered to provoke their wives to be
- and finally, men who are of the opinion that my helper syndrome, compassion and understanding is infinite such that with me during her appearance as a poor victim and "Nobody loves me more and takes me in his arms!" general awakening of the mummy-instinct zero in the beautiful regularity in human milk can be. has
shot finally to 100% of the bird, a client who was obviously considers me as a matter of course in view of the daily presence in my practice, many times - of course for him for free - to before the actual appointment on the basis of completely irrelevant trivia Call pleasure to be allowed to be happy even Saturday night at 21:00 and from which I received on yesterday's day a kläffige SMS in which he threatened me, I would be grateful to have gotten to him after I gave him two individually for him work out deep analysis of each 130 pages (!!!) and a channeling, after his inevitable expulsion from my practice before the use of a consultancy, found naturally in accounting had and he believes now, I would be for people to pull money out of pocket.
This is about the same as if a whole grain bread at the baker's demand, he calls you in exchange for the price, of course, before you leave the store to pay the same there and he then threatened that he could be grateful and happy with you got acquainted with - everyone else would have probably struck the same, so again really lucky - and then argue with the need to correct it would pay for it anyway to keep your customers only the money out of pocket! This has to be but now do not really understand it???
Remarkably determine at this point that men are obvious, little that they are again able to go half-way up, immediately grab huge club, say the next war declaration and declare the battle as chair.
Unfortunately I had the light of experience since the day in question to determine "X":
A man feels obviously not become man can tell if the war as he opened and then access to the weapon!
that men like, often and willingly perform war, here are welcome to confirm their own strength and supposed superiority, we do not just since the siege of Troy or train with Hannibal's elephants over the Alps. Reinforced I had to find that although we now thankfully are no longer at war and the danger that (s) picks up the sword and the stone age-leg, now rather low, now is another, more than getting used to and crude form of the subtle declaration of war is used: inattention, Disrespect, just loutish and underground bad behavior, and - even if man is dressed in fine suits, with tie and-measure shoes and in scented lotions, wraps some very flattering and charming occurs to him might assume so, at least, are already amenities and subject to requirements of the Western civilization to have - always an at least temporarily back to the Neanderthal metamorphosis takes place.
Gentlemen, you are quite certain: The days where you practiced even walk upright, you could be proven in the hunting of mammoths and saber-toothed tiger, tribal rituals in real tough guys campfire celebrated and inhabit the cave in the Neander Valley are finally over, the battle of the sexes a la "Men are from Mars and women from Venus - this is called so definitely not the same language" is also a long time, even if this fundamental change so far, perhaps something bloomed in secret, over!
goes In my practice, not guilty to the question perpetrators or victims, or innocent, the perpetual defend a blossom of pure white vest - in my discussions, it is solely for your understanding, knowledge, the self-self-acquaintance, the self- Find, reflection, clarity, truth, and the mirror of self-knowledge. They agree a date with me to find help - what you see with me but never will be verbal confrontations in the deepest jungle level, I am not representative of your wife, partner or friend and represent this also not therefore, I offer no projection, I have no hesitation as a doormat for her bad mood available'm definitely not the lightning rod for lack of stress-resistance and I am never your enemy in a war that you do indeed outside, to be held but within you. I am not your enemy and opponent and you are not forced in battle, similar to a duel at dawn, with me or to measure but an imaginary war to win - Your biggest enemy is not me, but only for yourself!
As I discovered, unfortunately, stopped in the past, both in terms of readiness for change, the will to reflect, as well as the motivation to actively change the overall situation and their own behavior more in men classified as low. At best, everything changes very quickly to the positive, but do not have their own change and activity!
The reason? Quite simply, because men admit at this point no later than one's sensitivity and empathy would, they would have with yourself to admit that they too have a soul, the soft and vulnerable and not as strong as one (s), the like will myself to believe. This knowledge is equated with an admission of its own weakness and vulnerability - a fatal fallacy and misconception. No man in the world loses strength as he admits himself that he is sensitive and vulnerable, quite the contrary, he thereby gains enormously in inner strength, their own identity, authenticity and credibility.
Let us be clear on this right: I speak not men always the chance for change off, they deserve it and I would love to know when they would use this underlying chance too - I is men, at least a high percentage of you, but much to agreement, recognizing in regard to the need for change. So be brave, my lords, it also does definitely hurt less like pulling teeth, and nothing feels so good and unique, like the victory over his own ego!
Even if the future is valid until further notice in my practice, Neanderthal man and war hero - no thanks, but I would put the future after the all-homicide-principle, not all men of this world into a drawer: Still very warm welcome and are very liked to see in my practice, men who know their own strength, however, admit weaknesses and allow them to, are aware of their own sensitivity, empathy and vulnerability aware of not only looking for help, but this also take the necessary respect and esteem may have realized that they do not need a show of force or violence, aggression and war declaration, to be able to communicate peacefully with 50% of the world at eye level and exist and have discovered that they too actually have something like a soul.
Jutta Ansani Lotz- Hentschel
practice "healing life energy"
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